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Letting You Be You, Letting Me Be Me

BBW (41) looking for Male Des Moines, Iowa, United States

It is my opinion that this paragraph is supposed to outline a laundry list of characteristics in an attempt to "pro and con" our way into a relationship. These lists are typically comprised of run of the mill personality traits that describe most of the lead characters in modern day movies, or falsified resumes in a poor economy. This paragraph belittles the readers' intelligence, lowering them to no more than the nameless faceless mass of Society. In it, the authors' fail themselves. To be honest, to allow another person, a stranger, to see past our defenses is seen not as courageous but as a weakness. This paragraph of hobbies, goals, and tastes of music is no more personal than a glance at a passerby on the street.

Perhaps that is the point. To dilute the experience to that of catching someone's eye. My grandparents met on the street, walking through their home town the met eyes for the first time and fell in love. The love our grandparents and modern chick flicks propose as true and that, deep down, we are all searching for.

So let's play along both in-spite of the concept and because of it.

My favorite music varies but tends to play during Quentin Tarantino movies. My hobbies change with the season, right now painting and reading seem to be taking the lead.

If you feel comfortable with yourself, I'm interested. If you'd like to be equals, I'm in. If you like Futurama, sign me up.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildBBW/BHM
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleI have two Editor and Office Admin

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsFuturama, Adult Swim, Daily Show, Conan, Sci-Fi...
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation
Favorite moviesEulogy, anything Mel Brooks/ Woody Allen, Empire Records, Drop Dead Gorgeous....
Music typesRock, Pop, Jazz, Latin, Dance, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Reading selectionClassic, Comic, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science fiction
Favorite booksIsland, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Brave New World...
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing cards

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asObscure
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum

Views

Political viewsMiddle of the road
ReligionSpiritualist
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness